How to win an argument .

1. Being gentle is being powerful
"Shouting betrays that you are weak and small,"
2. Don't invade someone's territory
3. Keep your dignity and admit when you're wrong
In fact, we don't often win arguments per se - "keeping your dignity is much more important" when it comes to being the victor in a fight. "Being wrong is not being a fool,"
4. Don't be too sensitive
 there are two common roots for our anger and these divide along gender lines. "If you are really really mad with someone, it's likely to be because you've either been put down or rejected,"
 5. Treat people with good intentions rather than retaliating
If you treat someone nicely even when they are "firing arrows" at you, then eventually they will run out of steam.